Posts Tagged ‘Soul Mate’

Online Dating For Seniors

Written by admin on October 11th, 2010. Posted in Relationships

Ricky Lim asked:




In America, over 30% of the population (over the age of 45) is not married. That’s the main reason why the online dating services are so popular these days. If you’re over 45 and you still haven’t found your match you can use one of those services. Many people do it all the time; it’s called online dating for seniors.

It is very easy to learn how to use it. You’ll just have to fill in a few personal information in your profile. You should know that there are a lot of free sites on the Internet but there are also many other websites that will ask for a subscription. You cannot make any mistakes because there are only a few easy steps to follow that require no advanced informational skills.

Many single people found their match using these online dating services for seniors. It really works because these sites usually group the members according to their personal interests. According to them, the compatibility is the main criteria when matching two individuals.

The online senior dating sites will help you find the perfect partner that will share your own hobbies and interests. If you want, you can personalize your search looking only for people living in certain geographic areas. For example you can look for men/women you age living in your own town. This is very useful because long-distance relationships might be pretty hard to maintain.

Another important thing for you to know is that online dating for seniors allows you to use their anonymous email service. A respectable online dating service will only make public your email address if you agree to it.

In addition to all that, these websites offer many interesting and useful tips and articles on dating. Every single piece of information is written by experts in dating and relationships and if you read them carefully you might find them helpful for your love life.

Any senior can find the perfect soul mate very easily. That’s why, the online dating for seniors is so popular and more and more people register each day.

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UK Dating Singles at Free UK Dating Services

Written by admin on February 24th, 2009. Posted in Dating

Kimmy Doe asked:


thousands of UK dating singles seeking for love and romance online in the last few years. The rate of getting married by knowing each other through free online dating services increases rapidly. The main reason of more and more singles these days is because of high divorce rate in United Kingdom. Husband and wife argued with each other, they filed a divorce. Most of the situation is that they have not understood each other before they got married. They got married without thinking thoroughly. Most of these couples who met at the bars or nightclubs filed divorce after a few years of gotten married. The main reason is that they were so hurry into a marriage. They didn’t have time to think about this big decision. They made a big mistake.

Therefore, it is not recommended to seek your soul mate at the bars. Single people at the bars didn’t tell the truth because the truth might hurt other people’s feeling. That’s why online dating services have been emerged and helped many UK relationships and marriages a year. The reason online dating services help UK dating singles to find their partners on the Internet is that single people know exactly who they look for. There are thousands of personal ads at these dating websites so that UK singles can pick one to contact with. By reading the personal ads of other people, you will know exactly if you found your dating matches or not. Online dating personal ads are estimated to be more than 75% exact as they stated who they are. These single people don’t even know who will view their profiles so they usually did not write untruth information on their personal profiles.

Many UK dating girls look for single men in the United Kingdom, America, or around the world. Most of these single women who want to find dates online. They are looking for a long term relationship. In the other hand, UK single men seek their compatible partners through these free dating services. Both single women and men look for each other on net. That’s why online dating services in UK have been booming in recent years. Many singles register their personal ads on these sites to find online love. No more wasting time to find dates at the parks or other social places. UK dating singles find dates online because it is the easiest means to find your dream mate these days.

With thousands of UK singles online who join these free dating sites, you will find a right soul mate at these websites. Your dream soul mate is waiting to meet you. So, seeking a single woman or man is a piece of cake. You can find local singles or international dating singles. For just a few minutes of your time, you will eye up with thousands of beautiful single women and men who are looking at you, waiting for you, and ready to be contacted with you. The best part of these sites is free dating online website for singles and personals.

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Conscious Internet Dating: Balancing High Tech with High Touch

Written by admin on January 16th, 2009. Posted in Dating

David Steele asked:


In a new trend, singles are becoming increasingly frustrated with internet dating. In spite of millions of singles using the internet and the promises and success stories of online matchmaking websites, I’ve heard the same thing over and over from singles across the country who are frustrated with internet dating-

“It’s great to have a lot of choices, but it takes a lot of time and I don’t seem to meet anyone I have much chemistry with.”

This makes sense to me. In some ways, using a computer to find your soul mate is like trying to cook a souffle in a microwave. Some things just require time, effort, and the human touch.

This article explores the upsides and downsides of internet dating, attempts to explain why internet dating is frustrating for some singles, and suggests alternatives.

Top Five Advantages of Internet Dating

1. Reach more singles

2. Inexpensive (relatively)

3. Enough information available for efficient sorting

4. Anonymous

5. Easy to control most aspects of the process

Top Five Downsides of Internet Dating

1. Overwhelming number of choices

2. Encourages “shopping” mentality

3. Many users are less than truthful

4. Some users are game players, predators. cheaters

5. Complacency- tempting to rely on the internet and exclude other options

The Internet, Chemistry, and the Law of Attraction

Today’s singles seem to be relying on their computer a bit too much and complacently expecting the internet to deliver their soul mate. This is a version of the Fairytale Trap (one of fourteen dating traps in my book “Conscious Dating”). The internet is a wonderful tool (I use it!) but doesn’t seem to work effectively as the only tool for finding potential partners.

I believe that the two biggest reasons why the internet isn’t effective for many singles is the role of chemistry and the Law of Attraction.

Chemistry is critically important for a successful relationship. Everyone wants a partner they feel strong chemistry with, and a relationship would be pretty dry and unsustainable without it. The Fourth Principle of Conscious Dating is “Balance Your Heart With Your Head.” Identifying your requirements, needs, and wants does not minimize the need for chemistry. You need both! I like to think of chemistry as the radar that helps you find your target, then you use your requirements, needs and wants to decide “yes” or “no.”

The Law of Attraction is inescapable and either works for you or against you. If you’re “busy” or “shy” and the internet is your only means of reaching potential partners, in a way you’re hiding behind your computer and the Law of Attraction is not likely to help you. The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like” and “energy follows attention,” meaning your results reflect your thoughts and your actions. Over the years I’ve become convinced that the Law of Attraction is a powerful law of the Universe, like gravity. Just like “what goes up must come down,” try as you might, you can’t avoid or change the principle that “like attracts like.”

If you’re hiding behind your computer, what people, relationships, and results are you likely to attract?

Top Five Ways to Supplement High Tech with High Touch

1. Use your support community

Most people find their soul mate through someone they know, so don’t be a lone ranger (another dating trap!) and lean on your friends, family, co-workers, and neighbors to assist you to meet potential partners.

2. Start a dating pool or networking group

Get a group of singles together (any gender mix) to support each other to meet potential partners. Most singles know lots of other singles of both genders, so pool your resources and do some matchmaking for each other!

3. Reach out to people

In today’s busy world with cell phones, texting, instant messaging, e-mail, and the internet promoting impersonal ways of interacting with others, it’s easy to forget the lost art of engaging with real people that are right in front of you. Make an effort to reach out to the people you come into contact with in your everyday life and watch your relationships blossom.

4. Make more friends

Since most people find their soul mate through someone they know, be open to developing new friendships and expanding your support community. Chances are you already have acquaintances at work and other places that you would enjoy spending more time with. Friends are easier to find than dates, and friendships often last longer than romantic relationships!

5. Get involved

Too many singles lead isolated lives centered around work, home, and a few friends. Participating in clubs, groups, classes, charities, church/temple, is the most important way you can leverage the Law of Attraction to help you find your soul mate. You’ll meet new people, make new friends, and pursue hobbies and interests important to you that bring you in contact with other compatible singles.

It’s All About Relationships

Technology can help us in many ways. Online dating is a wonderful tool that allows you to leverage your time and meet many more people than you could otherwise. However, let’s not forget that humans are social beings and finding your life partner is a relationship goal that is probably more effectively acheived by getting away from your computer as well as using it. You’re more likely to find relationship fulfillment by living a full, rich life among real people doing the things you enjoy that make your life meaningful.

As the ancient Roman playwright Terence once said- “Moderation in all things.” Do you think he meant the internet as well?