Internet Dating – Safety
Rody Isidore asked:
How do you know if an Internet Dating site is safe? On one hand, you really, really want to meet someone and you don’t want to hang out in bars or go on another blind date. But on the other hand, you mentioned Internet dating once and now your mother clips out articles about people meeting an axe-murderer for dinner when they thought they were just going on a date with a nice guy they met online. What do you do?
Ultimately, safety in dating is up to you, whether it’s Internet based or not. But there are things you can do to reduce the risks. One of the big ones is using reputable sites. There’s a ton of information available on the Internet – use it and check out the site you’re thinking about. See what lists it appears on and what other people have to say about it. If the site is something nobody has heard of and seems to be running from a server in someone’s basement, avoid it! If it’s one that’s consistently listed as a top site with millions of users, check it out some more. You’ll find that reputable sites such as Match.com, eHarmony and Chemistry.com stand up to a lot of scrutiny. They have testimonials, success stories and good reviews. They also have easy-to-find contact names and phone numbers. You can feel secure starting with these sites.
Once you’ve found a site you like, you should check out their advice on safety. And they should have some. eHarmony.com has a very detailed FAQ on the do’s and don’ts for safe Internet dating. Match.com and their sister site Chemistry.com have pages devoted to safety with supporting articles and tips. Look for signs that the site takes safety seriously. For example, the three sites mentioned here ask for information regarding members who are behaving inappropriately or unsafely.
When you’ve read through the safety tips and are assured that the Internet dating site you’re using is taking safety seriously you can feel more comfortable in your match making pursuits. But don’t ever become complacent – as much as the Internet sites try to ensure your safety, the only one who can actively affect your safety is you. Use your common sense and don’t make give out personal information before you’re comfortable. When you do meet, don’t leave your purse with ID and wallet on the table while you go to the bathroom. Don’t meet in remote places or strand yourself without transportation. Carry a cell phone and let your friends know where you are and when you’re expected back. This isn’t advice particular to Internet dating – it’s good advice for all dating situations.
You can date successfully via the Internet, and there are mainstream, reputable sites that can help you. There are a lot of ways to evaluate the sites and three that consistently stand out are: eHarmony.com Match.com and Chemistry.com. Have fun – check them out!
How do you know if an Internet Dating site is safe? On one hand, you really, really want to meet someone and you don’t want to hang out in bars or go on another blind date. But on the other hand, you mentioned Internet dating once and now your mother clips out articles about people meeting an axe-murderer for dinner when they thought they were just going on a date with a nice guy they met online. What do you do?
Ultimately, safety in dating is up to you, whether it’s Internet based or not. But there are things you can do to reduce the risks. One of the big ones is using reputable sites. There’s a ton of information available on the Internet – use it and check out the site you’re thinking about. See what lists it appears on and what other people have to say about it. If the site is something nobody has heard of and seems to be running from a server in someone’s basement, avoid it! If it’s one that’s consistently listed as a top site with millions of users, check it out some more. You’ll find that reputable sites such as Match.com, eHarmony and Chemistry.com stand up to a lot of scrutiny. They have testimonials, success stories and good reviews. They also have easy-to-find contact names and phone numbers. You can feel secure starting with these sites.
Once you’ve found a site you like, you should check out their advice on safety. And they should have some. eHarmony.com has a very detailed FAQ on the do’s and don’ts for safe Internet dating. Match.com and their sister site Chemistry.com have pages devoted to safety with supporting articles and tips. Look for signs that the site takes safety seriously. For example, the three sites mentioned here ask for information regarding members who are behaving inappropriately or unsafely.
When you’ve read through the safety tips and are assured that the Internet dating site you’re using is taking safety seriously you can feel more comfortable in your match making pursuits. But don’t ever become complacent – as much as the Internet sites try to ensure your safety, the only one who can actively affect your safety is you. Use your common sense and don’t make give out personal information before you’re comfortable. When you do meet, don’t leave your purse with ID and wallet on the table while you go to the bathroom. Don’t meet in remote places or strand yourself without transportation. Carry a cell phone and let your friends know where you are and when you’re expected back. This isn’t advice particular to Internet dating – it’s good advice for all dating situations.
You can date successfully via the Internet, and there are mainstream, reputable sites that can help you. There are a lot of ways to evaluate the sites and three that consistently stand out are: eHarmony.com Match.com and Chemistry.com. Have fun – check them out!
Tags: Blind Date, Match, Safety Tips
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